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Where to take your Flat Jack

Places Jack Loved

Jack loved all sorts of very specific places. Below is a general list of the kinds of places he went on his own or with his family and friends.

  • ​The boardwalk​

  • New Jersey

  • Fenway Park (or a baseball stadium)

  • Amusement parks- or Great Adventure specifically

  • Aquariums and zoos- especially to learn about conservation done through their work (zoo documentaries were a favorite to watch when he was sick)

  • Great restaurants, especially those with cuisines from all over the world- Indian, Ethiopian, Thai, Phillipino, Greek, and Mexican especially. Being a Jersy guy, Italian is always welcome, and he loved his Irish heritage, so an Irish pub was always on the list. Jack was a vegetarian, so any great vegan or vegetarian place is a great option too. He loved a great soft pretzel. 

  • Hikes in the wilderness, the tougher, the better. Shenandoah National Park was a particular favorite, and Jack always dreamed of walking the Appalachian Trail.

  • Thrift stores and flea markets. This was a particular favorite in his last years with Jessica- what cool, funny or useful thing could you find? How much can you save your wallet and the landfill by shopping here? What can you fix, upcycle or reuse?Both entertainment and conservation!

  • A Run- make sure you are being safe (run against traffic, wear reflectors and lights) or he would yell at you as you go by. But hed also send you a "have a good run!" as he passed you. Any length of run is good. Jack really encouraged people to do what they could, but he was a dedicated marathon runner and hoped to do a triathlon someday.

  • Ethnically specific grocery stores.

  • Any historical site or historic cemetery.

  • Anywhere with people he loved.​

Jack's lists

These lists are ones Jack kept on his phone. The places he wanted to surprise Jessica with, the places he found and wanted to visit, places he wanted to eat. These are still being updated, check back for more.

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Boston

Union Sq Donut

Forever Lunch - cash only?

Twin Donuts

Singh’s Roti Shopa Dorchester

Fenway

Sam Adams- brewery, taproom

Dorchester Brewing

 

Philadelphia 

Franklin Fountain

Elfreth's Alley

History sites

Zahava

symphony

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New Jersey

Al Basha- Paterson

Brother’s Produce- Paterson

Revolutionary Cemetery - Westfield

Sum Ramen- Millburn or Westfield

Washington Rock State Park

Jersey City Free Books

Chocolate Works- Livingston

Vesta Chocolates- Montclair-$$

Hartshorne Aboretum- Short Hills

The Raptor Trust

Hamilton House

Riker Hill- dinosaur footprints

Montclair Hawk Watch

Turtle Back Zoo

Lakota Wolf Preserve, then ice cream in East Stroudsburg

Ken Lockwood Gorge- 70 min, easy walk

New Meadowlands Flea Market- Rutherford

Newark Flea Market

Avenel Flea Market

Chutzpah Kitchen

Icecreamology

Kam Food Market- East Hanover

Victory Park Tavern- Rumson

Rock climbing gym- choose one!

Trampoline park- any!

La Lupa- Manalapan $$ Italian

Oak Hill Farms

Franklin Mines

Cowtown Rodeo

Hamilton- I assume the town?

Jenkinson’s- aquarium, boardwalk

NetCost

Asbury swan boats

India Garden- Belmar

Mama Dag’s Oyster House-Oceanport

Insectropolis

Shuyler House- Morristown
 

New York City

Gramercy Tavern 

Ice and Vice- the city- closed 

Niagara Falls

Staten Island ferry

Chinatown

Devils game

Weehawken

NY Botanical Gardens

Shuka and Sugar Wood- Prince St. and 6th Ave Soho

Soft Swerve ice cream

The Cloisters

Leyla- in the city 

Rockingham

Medieval times

Ardesia wine bar- Hell’s Kitchen

Meske- Ethiopian 

Big Gay Ice Cream

Crif Dog

Sullivan street bakery

Pi Bakerie- spanakopita 

Pierogies at Veselka

Banh mi Saigon

Galioto’s delicatessen 

Sofreh- Prospect Heights dinner only

Manousheh

Elea- Greek

North Miznon

Taim

Chama Mama- Georgian

Spicy Moon- vegan Szechuan

Community Food & Juice- fries. Columbia

Beyond Sushi

Tres Leches Cafe- 160 Orchard, LES

Peter Pan Donuts- Brooklyn

Cadence (vegan)- E Village

Superiority Burger

Hyderabadi Zaiqa- Hell’s Kitchen 52nd and 9th

Russ & daughters

Places Jack Talked about going.

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Washington DC- museums and restaurants especially, and to see Mykeshia​

St. Augustine FL

The mountains- anywhere

The beach- but not anywhere too hot.

Ireland​

The Pacific Northwest

Nearly Anywhere on Somebody Feed Phil

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Things Jack wanted to accomplish 

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Master’s Degree

Hike 100 miles solo

Learn to play chess again

NJ State long trail 

Scuba dive

Ride 500 miles alone

Hike the Shenandoah AT section

Hike NJ AT

Glacier/Yosemite/Grand Teton/ Yellowstone/Grand Canyon

Run sub 4

Run 1 sub 6 mile

Learn to play an instrument

Ireland trip

Finish an Ironman

Have a kid with Jessica

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Contact

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